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The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a complete guide for readers who want to use sexual fantasies to change old habits, learn new tricks, and put imagination back into their sex lives. With wit and enthusiasm, sex educator Violet Blue takes readers on a tour of the wide world of sexual fantasies, offering expert advice for talking dirty to a partner, playing with toys a The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a complete guide for readers who want to use sexual fantasies to change old habits, learn new tricks, and put imagination back into their sex lives. With wit and enthusiasm, sex educator Violet Blue takes readers on a tour of the wide world of sexual fantasies, offering expert advice for talking dirty to a partner, playing with toys and dress-up, making homemade porn, and exploring fetishes, sex scenes, phone sex, and much more. Packed with tons of games, resources, and lots of fun, The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is the perfect book for daring readers who want to safely turn their sexual fantasies into reality.


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The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a complete guide for readers who want to use sexual fantasies to change old habits, learn new tricks, and put imagination back into their sex lives. With wit and enthusiasm, sex educator Violet Blue takes readers on a tour of the wide world of sexual fantasies, offering expert advice for talking dirty to a partner, playing with toys a The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a complete guide for readers who want to use sexual fantasies to change old habits, learn new tricks, and put imagination back into their sex lives. With wit and enthusiasm, sex educator Violet Blue takes readers on a tour of the wide world of sexual fantasies, offering expert advice for talking dirty to a partner, playing with toys and dress-up, making homemade porn, and exploring fetishes, sex scenes, phone sex, and much more. Packed with tons of games, resources, and lots of fun, The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is the perfect book for daring readers who want to safely turn their sexual fantasies into reality.

30 review for The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Turn Your Fantasies into Reality (Ultimate Guides Series)

  1. 5 out of 5

    Kim BookJunkie ~ Editor & Proofreader

    When I was presented with the offer to listen to this audiobook in exchange for my honest review I initially declined. I hate nonfiction! I personally don't want to read anything nonfiction unless I absolutely have to! Plus, I am in a very satisfying relationship and saw absolutely no need for me to read a guide on this subject. I thought I knew it all and even joked saying, "I could have written that book myself"! Fortunately for me, I noticed how high the ratings were and decided to read some When I was presented with the offer to listen to this audiobook in exchange for my honest review I initially declined. I hate nonfiction! I personally don't want to read anything nonfiction unless I absolutely have to! Plus, I am in a very satisfying relationship and saw absolutely no need for me to read a guide on this subject. I thought I knew it all and even joked saying, "I could have written that book myself"! Fortunately for me, I noticed how high the ratings were and decided to read some of the reviews. I was surprised to find so many of the people who listened to or read the book had initially been reluctant to pick up the book, just like me. And from what I saw, everyone who did give the book as chance was glad that they had (just like I am now)! This is an absolutely brilliant book! Due to the creative mind of Violet Blue, topics I thought I was already well-versed in were reframed or taken apart and looked at in totally new ways. Because Ms. Blue shared stories, tips and suggestions based not only on her own personal experience but collected from interviews and research, I was left with many new ideas! Hearing about things from Ms. Blue's own point of view or from the perspective of those she knows or heard of also resulted in my learning more that I had expected. I even found myself wanting to revisit ideas or fantasies I had long forgotten about. I am very excited to say that fantasies and ideas my husband and I had once desire yet were forced to discard, thinking they were not tangible might now actually be possible! Although this book is primarily geared towards couples, I believe that anyone listening to or reading it would benefit from it in some way! Although this is a, "guide", it is written in an entertaining style, not even close to resembling the put-me-to-sleep-style reference type guide books out there. In fact, this book is actually FUN to listen to! Although it does contain factual information (interesting, useful factual information), it also contains entertaining vignettes and several erotic short stories by the fabulous Alison Tyler. The vignettes and erotic shorts perfectly correlate with the subject being discussed, providing us with sexy and fun examples of the topic at hand. I was never once bored and was finished with this book quicker than I had expected. I wonder if I would have liked this book as much if I had not listened to it being narrated by the very talented Lia Langola. Ms. Langola did a phenomenal job narrating this book; she truly was a perfect fit for it! On the rare occasion when she had to read less entertaining material (such as reading a list of which sexually transmitted diseases are associated with each sexual act), Ms. Langola spoke in an even keeled voice while somehow refraining from sounding monotone, dry or mechanical. I never felt like she was lecturing me or droning on. To the contrary, it felt as though Ms. Langola enjoyed what she was reading! While reading the fiction portions of this book, Ms. Langola demonstrates how extremely talented she is, altering her voice to perfectly portraying various characters. Never before had I so clearly seen the advantage of listening to an audiobook versus reading the book..... While narrating the section on how to speak with a sexy voice, Ms. Langola literally demonstrates Ms. Blue's instructions! Only those of us who listened to the audiobook were able to benefit from this additional perk! I really can't say enough about how wonderful the author and narrator of this book are! I am very grateful that I took a chance on this audiobook! If you give this book/audiobook a chance, your partner will thank you for it!

  2. 5 out of 5

    Erzabet Bishop

    Review: We all crave adventure in the bedroom. Especially us married types who crave a little something extra to spice up the soup. Well, so to speak. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a recipe book for making a staid evening of formula sex into one that will knock your knickers off in no time flat. Ideas abound on how to share your fantasy for role play or just how far to go. It is real world instruction for the vanilla world who maybe wants to try and work on a flavor boost. I loved it. G Review: We all crave adventure in the bedroom. Especially us married types who crave a little something extra to spice up the soup. Well, so to speak. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a recipe book for making a staid evening of formula sex into one that will knock your knickers off in no time flat. Ideas abound on how to share your fantasy for role play or just how far to go. It is real world instruction for the vanilla world who maybe wants to try and work on a flavor boost. I loved it. Great source of information by a woman who tells it like it is. Violet Blue is a rock star whether she is editing an anthology or writing instructional non fiction like this book. So is Alison Tyler. I have the privilege to know her as an editor and a co-author and she can curl your toes in no time flat. So...take it from me and get a copy of this book for your naughty recipe library. You will thank me in the morning.

  3. 4 out of 5

    Beverly Diehl

    There's a wealth of really good information and ideas in this book. However two things that I found a little off-putting; it feels very couple-centric and hetero centric. For example, there's a section on threesomes, and the presumption is that a male-female couple is looking for another female or male to join them, then how to make that happen. What if you want to have a threesome and you are single? Or are paired with a partner of the same gender. The second thing I noticed is, even though it w There's a wealth of really good information and ideas in this book. However two things that I found a little off-putting; it feels very couple-centric and hetero centric. For example, there's a section on threesomes, and the presumption is that a male-female couple is looking for another female or male to join them, then how to make that happen. What if you want to have a threesome and you are single? Or are paired with a partner of the same gender. The second thing I noticed is, even though it was updated in 2014, it felt a bit dated. I loved the short sexy stories included by Alison Tyler. The section on Fetishes introduced me to some I'd never heard of, I appreciated the ideas for public sex (as well as the warnings on how not to get caught and go to jail), and found the BDSM section gave a thorough overview. Overall, recommended for any couple looking to spice up their sex life, and for singles who aren't triggered by couples' privilege assumptions.

  4. 5 out of 5

    Scott Roberts

    Very interesting book based on "How To's" on sexual desires and how you can improve on your sex life. I give this book 5 stars. Very interesting book based on "How To's" on sexual desires and how you can improve on your sex life. I give this book 5 stars.

  5. 4 out of 5

    Amberfaye

    I always wanted to read this book when I was in high school. Saw it was part of the Audible Romance Package and jumped on the chance to finally be read it. Good info for not me.

  6. 5 out of 5

    Beauty's Punishment

    First off, I have to say, wow! For the record, I am not easily wowed by a whole lot of things, so it has to be really good. I have never read one of Violet’s books before this one so I didn’t know what to expect. Violet’s book is jam packed with information with how to ask for what you want, what things you need to go shopping for, and how to carry out your scenarios. Plus there are loads of handy websites and books she suggests you read for further information of topics that interest you. She r First off, I have to say, wow! For the record, I am not easily wowed by a whole lot of things, so it has to be really good. I have never read one of Violet’s books before this one so I didn’t know what to expect. Violet’s book is jam packed with information with how to ask for what you want, what things you need to go shopping for, and how to carry out your scenarios. Plus there are loads of handy websites and books she suggests you read for further information of topics that interest you. She really gets in depth in the 255 pages of her book. I chose the paperback version since I love the feel of a book, and I could have a handy reference on my bookshelf all the time. Even if you are a seasoned Kinkster, there is still information there for you to learn about, and fun things to do. If you are a Newbie, then you’ve hit the jackpot. Violet Blue teaches us to learn how to make fetish and sex work together. Role play is discussed in the first chapter, and that fantasy can make masturbation intense and focused where you can have a starring role. You can role play your fantasies without the risk to your real life relationship and try out new things that might be taboo. You can also find out what works best for you. Violet explains and defines popular fantasy themes. She explains the health benefits of masturbation, and refutes the harmful myths that have kept people from engaging in it. Violet also explains what to not put in your butt, and The Golden Rules of anal masturbation. Violet talks about fantasies vs reality and how far to take it, and when the timing for fantasies would be inappropriate. How to ask for a spanking, and some real life results. Surprise your partner with their sexy fantasy, and what to do when your partner is reluctant. In the chapter Striptease, Hot talk, and Massage – she give you good ideas to plan, setup, and sexy moves to do. What the atmosphere and locations should be, outfits to wear, props to buy, music to play, and how to bump and grind. Then she gets into Lap Dancing; how to do it, and how to undress your lover. Violet teaches you how to dirty talk, and make your voice the sexiest it’s been. After that, it’s how to give an erotic massage, and what you need besides oils, different sensation toys to orgasm and aftercare. In the chapter Strip clubs, Phone Sex, and Call girls for Two – she talks about your expectations with your partner before going, what you want, and bringing cash. Etiquette for going to a Peepshow, strip club, and how to behave with sex workers. She explains how to set up a date, and what to do afterwards. The chapters afterward Violet discusses: Public sex – what to wear, what to bring, what times of day are best, and where to go to have it. Swinging – What it is, what to do, and swinger etiquette. Fetishes – What it is and what it’s not. Guidelines on how to have sex with a fetishist. Classic fetishes, and networking with other folks. Erotic D/s and s/m fantasies – Roles, fantasies, what to do, safe words, and going out to play in public or with a Dominatrix. Erotic sex games and photo shoots, and how to make your own porn. Safe Sex Interspersed throughout the book are sexy stories by Alison Tyler. I really enjoyed her first story called The Perfect Match since it involves spanking. By the time I finished reading it I was smiling. Alison’s next story is called Three In One, which leaves you guessing until the end. California Dreaming is pretty hot, and also the story about Paris. You can see for yourself and read all of her sexy stories. You won’t be disappointed.

  7. 5 out of 5

    Jillyn

    The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is the kind of book that I think should be required reading for adults. Whether the reader is male, female, straight, gay, single taken, or any label in between, this book has something to learn and adapt to fit any lifestyle and any kink. Speaking of kink- whether you'd call your sex life vanilla or if you already have some kinky tricks up your sleeve, Violet Blue has tips and advice on how to make your fantastical sex the absolute best that it can be. Person The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is the kind of book that I think should be required reading for adults. Whether the reader is male, female, straight, gay, single taken, or any label in between, this book has something to learn and adapt to fit any lifestyle and any kink. Speaking of kink- whether you'd call your sex life vanilla or if you already have some kinky tricks up your sleeve, Violet Blue has tips and advice on how to make your fantastical sex the absolute best that it can be. Personally, I am a huge fan of role play. Character possibilities are endless and your imagination can go wild. Violet Blue dedicates a whole chapter (and then some) to this topic. She goes above and beyond just naming classic roles/characters- although this book includes that too- by offering acting advice, steps on how to properly plan out these roles and the night of sex that follows it, and even includes resources in the back on where to shop to buy the costumes and items necessary to lose yourself into the role. I was beyond impressed with the amount of advice packed into that chapter. And honestly, I was beyond impressed overall at how much knowledge, advice, and spicy tricks of the trade Violet Blue manages to fit into this book, period. She writes each chapter with clear expertise on the subject, as well as with a hint of snark and humor. I really like this style of writing, because instead of feeling like I needed to read a book to improve my sex life, I feel like I'm turning to an old girl friend and getting some saucy advice over mimosas. It's a friendly, unassuming, and easy-to-read prose that all ages and walks of life can appreciate and understand. I was very pleasantly surprised to see that there is space in this book dedicated to solo play. I think it's a great inclusion, because you should know your body better than anyone else. And I know that there are some people out there who simply want to be alone in their fantasies. I think it is great that this book doesn't shun or exclude them, but rather loops them into the conversation by offering advice and techniques for men and women alike. No matter what your fantasy is, there's a topic in here for you. Threesomes (or more)? Check. Stripping? Check. Games, public sex, fetishes? Check check check. New to all of it? No sweat. She starts you with the basics so that you always feel safe and comfortable. Ashamed or embarrassed about the fantasy you have? Again, Violet Blue has you covered. From safe sex practices to swinging and guidance on how to lap dance, this girl knows what you want in your bedroom and makes it damn near impossible for you not to integrate it. With a book full of advice like this, how can your partner (or your own body) resist? This is a book that I feel all sexually active and adventurous books should keep on a shelf close to the naughty drawer for inspiration. Thank you so much to Cleis Press for my copy in exchange for my honest review. This review can also be found on my new blog, Bitches n Prose.

  8. 5 out of 5

    Delta

    The Ultimate Guide is no understatement. This book covers everything from general descriptions of common kinks, to the specifics of negotiating with sex workers. There is something for everyone in this book, including some saucy scenes to get the blood boiling. I listened to the audio version of this book and I found Lia Langola to be an excellent narrator. She managed to have both a serious and playful demeanor, perfect for this type of work. She sounded right at home reading this book. Excellent The Ultimate Guide is no understatement. This book covers everything from general descriptions of common kinks, to the specifics of negotiating with sex workers. There is something for everyone in this book, including some saucy scenes to get the blood boiling. I listened to the audio version of this book and I found Lia Langola to be an excellent narrator. She managed to have both a serious and playful demeanor, perfect for this type of work. She sounded right at home reading this book. Excellent book I would recommend to any consenting adult. **I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.**

  9. 4 out of 5

    Jessica

    This book is a great starting point for people if they want to explore their own or understand their partner's sexuality more. This book is a great starting point for people if they want to explore their own or understand their partner's sexuality more.

  10. 5 out of 5

    Bianca

  11. 4 out of 5

    Miss

  12. 5 out of 5

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  13. 5 out of 5

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  16. 5 out of 5

    Jill Gerhardstein

  17. 4 out of 5

    Kimberly

  18. 4 out of 5

    Karen

  19. 5 out of 5

    Abbie

  20. 4 out of 5

    Melissa

  21. 5 out of 5

    tdwyer

  22. 4 out of 5

    David Schwindt

  23. 5 out of 5

    Melanie

  24. 5 out of 5

    Zabber

  25. 5 out of 5

    Rachel Kramer Bussel

  26. 5 out of 5

    James Fisher

  27. 5 out of 5

    Chuck Duggan

  28. 4 out of 5

    Buford Lemon

  29. 4 out of 5

    Krystian

  30. 5 out of 5

    Jessica Robin

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