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MIT astrophysicist Sara Seager interweaves the story of her search for meaning and solace after losing her first husband to cancer, her unflagging search for an Earth-like exoplanet, and her unexpected discovery of new love. Sara Seager has made it her life's work to peer into the spaces around stars--looking for exoplanets outside our solar system, hoping to find the one-i MIT astrophysicist Sara Seager interweaves the story of her search for meaning and solace after losing her first husband to cancer, her unflagging search for an Earth-like exoplanet, and her unexpected discovery of new love. Sara Seager has made it her life's work to peer into the spaces around stars--looking for exoplanets outside our solar system, hoping to find the one-in-a-billion world enough like ours to sustain life. But with the unexpected death of her husband, her life became an empty, lightless space. Suddenly she was the single mother of two young boys, a widow at forty, clinging to three crumpled pages of instructions her husband had written for things like grocery shopping--things he had done while she did pioneering work as a planetary scientist at MIT. She became painfully conscious of her Asperger's, which before losing her husband had felt more like background noise. She felt, for the first time, alone in the universe. In this probing, invigoratingly honest memoir, Seager tells the story of how, as she stumblingly navigated the world of grief, she also kept looking for other worlds. She continues to develop groundbreaking projects, such as the Starshade, a sunflower-shaped instrument that, when launched into space, unfurls itself so as to block planet-obscuring starlight, and she takes solace in the alien beauty of exoplanets. At the same time, she discovers what feels every bit as wondrous: other people, reaching out across the space of her grief. Among them are the Widows of Concord, a group of women offering consolation and advice; and her beloved sons, Max and Alex. Most unexpected of all, there is another kind of one-in-a-billion match with an amateur astronomer. Equally attuned to the wonders of deep space and human connection, The Smallest Lights in the Universe is its own light in the dark.


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MIT astrophysicist Sara Seager interweaves the story of her search for meaning and solace after losing her first husband to cancer, her unflagging search for an Earth-like exoplanet, and her unexpected discovery of new love. Sara Seager has made it her life's work to peer into the spaces around stars--looking for exoplanets outside our solar system, hoping to find the one-i MIT astrophysicist Sara Seager interweaves the story of her search for meaning and solace after losing her first husband to cancer, her unflagging search for an Earth-like exoplanet, and her unexpected discovery of new love. Sara Seager has made it her life's work to peer into the spaces around stars--looking for exoplanets outside our solar system, hoping to find the one-in-a-billion world enough like ours to sustain life. But with the unexpected death of her husband, her life became an empty, lightless space. Suddenly she was the single mother of two young boys, a widow at forty, clinging to three crumpled pages of instructions her husband had written for things like grocery shopping--things he had done while she did pioneering work as a planetary scientist at MIT. She became painfully conscious of her Asperger's, which before losing her husband had felt more like background noise. She felt, for the first time, alone in the universe. In this probing, invigoratingly honest memoir, Seager tells the story of how, as she stumblingly navigated the world of grief, she also kept looking for other worlds. She continues to develop groundbreaking projects, such as the Starshade, a sunflower-shaped instrument that, when launched into space, unfurls itself so as to block planet-obscuring starlight, and she takes solace in the alien beauty of exoplanets. At the same time, she discovers what feels every bit as wondrous: other people, reaching out across the space of her grief. Among them are the Widows of Concord, a group of women offering consolation and advice; and her beloved sons, Max and Alex. Most unexpected of all, there is another kind of one-in-a-billion match with an amateur astronomer. Equally attuned to the wonders of deep space and human connection, The Smallest Lights in the Universe is its own light in the dark.

30 review for The Smallest Lights in the Universe: A Memoir

  1. 4 out of 5

    Diane S ☔

    I thought this was a terrific memoir. A combination of the search for new worlds, planets and a grieving widow and mother to two young boys trying to keep it together. A widows club with some terrific women help her immensely. Her work kept her centered, but since her deceased husband was the main caregiver and keeper of the house, she had much to learn. A beautiful story, and a sorrowful one. How she met her husband, her love of the stars that propelled her into her career. Learned about space, I thought this was a terrific memoir. A combination of the search for new worlds, planets and a grieving widow and mother to two young boys trying to keep it together. A widows club with some terrific women help her immensely. Her work kept her centered, but since her deceased husband was the main caregiver and keeper of the house, she had much to learn. A beautiful story, and a sorrowful one. How she met her husband, her love of the stars that propelled her into her career. Learned about space, exoplanets, the struggles to invent better equipment, to find more planets. We can't possibly be the only ones, can we? Nicely told, a story of life and death. Ultimately a story of hope because life wasn't done with her yet. She even finds out something about her own self she had never known. ARC from bookbrowse.

  2. 4 out of 5

    Maureen Connolly

    Read this book in one weekend, found it difficult to put down! Sara Seager is such an interesting human - so genuine in her self-reflection. A genius astrophysicist, a young mother and widow - she has a knack for seamlessly taking us back and forth between the layers of her life as she learns her way forward in life. This memoir is a quiet, stunning achievement.

  3. 5 out of 5

    Sonja Arlow

    3.5 stars From being a little girl who only felt a sense of belonging when gazing at the stars, to a woman who becomes an expert in her field, Sara has always found it difficult to fit in and make friends. When she meets Mike as a graduate student they just click, get married and have two beautiful children. But when Mike gets diagnosed with terminal cancer their life implodes into something unrecognisable. Not long after Mike's death, Sara discovers a group of ladies who call themselves "The Widow 3.5 stars From being a little girl who only felt a sense of belonging when gazing at the stars, to a woman who becomes an expert in her field, Sara has always found it difficult to fit in and make friends. When she meets Mike as a graduate student they just click, get married and have two beautiful children. But when Mike gets diagnosed with terminal cancer their life implodes into something unrecognisable. Not long after Mike's death, Sara discovers a group of ladies who call themselves "The Widows Group." They became her anchors in a life that feels like it will never stop spiraling out of control. Sara is a highly respected and recognized astrophysicist, yet she needs to somehow come down to earth and deal with faulty wiring in her house or a leaky faucet, all the while dealing with grief and a new life as a single parent. I enjoyed the descriptions of progress made in the field of astrophysics even if a few sections felt borderline too technical but her passion for her work is undeniable. Sara is very honest throughout the book, her journey to rediscover herself and her explanations about her work was very interesting yet I don’t think it’s a book that will stay with me for years to come.

  4. 5 out of 5

    Olive Fellows (abookolive)

    In 2016, the New York Times Magazine ran a feature titled, “The Woman Who Might Find Us Another Earth.” It was a profile of astrophysicist Sara Seager who has spent her career looking for Earth-like exoplanets, or planets in other galaxies in the so-called “Goldilocks zone” (not to hot, not too cold, but just right) that have the potential to host life, even if it looks different than our own version. Even though she has the whole universe to search in order to get closer to meeting that goal, t In 2016, the New York Times Magazine ran a feature titled, “The Woman Who Might Find Us Another Earth.” It was a profile of astrophysicist Sara Seager who has spent her career looking for Earth-like exoplanets, or planets in other galaxies in the so-called “Goldilocks zone” (not to hot, not too cold, but just right) that have the potential to host life, even if it looks different than our own version. Even though she has the whole universe to search in order to get closer to meeting that goal, the prospect doesn’t seem to daunt her. But in Seager’s new memoir, The Smallest Lights in the Universe, we are able to see the woman behind the breathtakingly vast science. We are able to look inside her universe. Through cleanly efficient, yet deeply emotional storytelling, Seager gives us a glimpse inside her life: a childhood during which she largely needed to fend for herself, her connection with her father but her estrangement from most of the rest of her immediate family, the way she fell in love with her first husband, the arrival of her two sons, the gradual and excruciatingly painful death of her husband from cancer, and finding a way through her grief after his loss. Through all of this, always acutely present alongside the dramas of her life is Sara’s career and her life’s work of finding the Earth’s partner in life, even after she lost her own. This is a very well-written and moving memoir. The parallels she is able to draw between her work and her life are subtle, but give the book a really good flow. It’s borderline unfair how a woman so smart and so successful can also be this talented of a writer. She’s not afraid to be completely raw and honest about her grief - she takes you through what I imagine are some of the hardest points in her life, but with a grace and humility that shows a true strength of character. Whether you dig science or not, I think this one will impress you!

  5. 4 out of 5

    Kathy

    A wonderfully honest memoir from a gifted scientist working in the field of astrophysics. Excellent read for those interested in young widowhood; the scientific research of space; child rearing challenges when one mate dies an early death; support groups for widows; MIT graduates/students and outdoor sports enthusiasts. Something for all those groups. Library Loan

  6. 4 out of 5

    Amanda

    A beautiful memoir of an astrophysicist who navigated a successful career, motherhood, and the death of her husband, all while not realizing she was on the autistic spectrum. I found this book fascinating, heartbreaking, while also full of joy and redemption. Toward the end, it often gave me goosebumps. I highly recommend it to anyone, especially those with the slightest interest in space exploration / stars / the universe.

  7. 4 out of 5

    Amanda

    This book was brilliant. I am strongly biased because I also wish to explore the universe (though not in Sara's exact field), and could relate to a lot of her experiences, but though Sara Seager is not a writer, she has a beautiful language. And more importantly, a beautiful way of looking at the universe. This book was brilliant. I am strongly biased because I also wish to explore the universe (though not in Sara's exact field), and could relate to a lot of her experiences, but though Sara Seager is not a writer, she has a beautiful language. And more importantly, a beautiful way of looking at the universe.

  8. 4 out of 5

    Kristen

    This book was so interesting and so compelling that I read it in one sitting; staying up past my bedtime! She observes like a scientist, writes like a literature professor; and keeps it real like someone with autism. The result is such an unexpected delight.

  9. 4 out of 5

    Kara of BookishBytes

    From the beginning, I loved Sara Seager's writing voice. She's smart and insightful and a perfect blend of expert and accessible. This book is 2/3 about the author's family life an 1/3 about her work. I thought both aspects of her life were fascinating. For a mathematically-inclined person, she describes emotions and interpersonal reactions beautifully. Even though I haven't experienced her tragedies or triumphs, I felt the weight and the thrill of them through her words. I was emotionally moved b From the beginning, I loved Sara Seager's writing voice. She's smart and insightful and a perfect blend of expert and accessible. This book is 2/3 about the author's family life an 1/3 about her work. I thought both aspects of her life were fascinating. For a mathematically-inclined person, she describes emotions and interpersonal reactions beautifully. Even though I haven't experienced her tragedies or triumphs, I felt the weight and the thrill of them through her words. I was emotionally moved by this book and intellectually stimulated by it. That's a five-star combination for me. I loved it.

  10. 5 out of 5

    Katie

    This was a really enjoyable memoir about Dr. Seager's various loves: her husband, her kids, her support system, and of course exoplanets and space. As someone who has experienced (on a smaller scale) loss, grief, and success, as Sara has, I found her depictions of what grief does and how it affects the rest of your life to be among the closest to my own experiences of any literary depiction I have ever read. I am a big baby and I cried hard during the chapters describing her late husband's illne This was a really enjoyable memoir about Dr. Seager's various loves: her husband, her kids, her support system, and of course exoplanets and space. As someone who has experienced (on a smaller scale) loss, grief, and success, as Sara has, I found her depictions of what grief does and how it affects the rest of your life to be among the closest to my own experiences of any literary depiction I have ever read. I am a big baby and I cried hard during the chapters describing her late husband's illness. The writing was good, although I did find myself wanting to be forgiving about things like imperfect transitions between topics or metaphors that felt a bit off, as a scientist rather than a writer penned this book.

  11. 5 out of 5

    Janis

    I received The Smallest Lights in the Universe as an Advanced Reading Copy from Book Browse. I was pleasantly surprised because my third least favorite genre is a memoir, and my least favorite genre is anything to do with science fiction or space travels. Seager changed my mind. Her persistence in the study of exoplanets, planets outside of our solar system, has led her to a tenured position at MIT, to the MacArthur Foundation $625,000 'genius" grants, and to work on NASA's Starshade project whi I received The Smallest Lights in the Universe as an Advanced Reading Copy from Book Browse. I was pleasantly surprised because my third least favorite genre is a memoir, and my least favorite genre is anything to do with science fiction or space travels. Seager changed my mind. Her persistence in the study of exoplanets, planets outside of our solar system, has led her to a tenured position at MIT, to the MacArthur Foundation $625,000 'genius" grants, and to work on NASA's Starshade project which is a telescope that allows scientists to see space differently than they could previously see with the Kepler and Hubble telescopes. What amazed me about the book is that her style of writing held my attention and made me understand the complicated aspects of space. Her story describes not only the life of a dedicated and intelligent woman in a field mostly made up of equally intelligent men but also the tragedies of her life. She survives a dismal childhood of separated parents, a feeling of loneness (later diagnosed as borderline autism) throughout her formative years, and the tragic death of her husband, Mike, at a young age. Their beautiful canoe trips through the lakes of Canada and the Grand Canyon, his willingness to move to Boston, and his belief in her career contributed to the sadness of his death. At the age just a few days shy of her 40th birthday, she becomes a widow with two small children. About three months before he dies and chemo ravages his body, he types her a guide to life without him. It includes everything from which grocery stores to hardware stores that he uses. On a particularly dreary day, she discovers a group of ladies who call themselves "The Widows Group." They become her anchors after his death. With help from many friends she is able to continue her work and required travels. During one of her presentations to an amateur astronomers convention, she meets her second husband. Although her sadness and grief throughout the story is apparent, the journey to what she is trying to find in her personal life is balanced with what she is trying to find in space Although she is highly respected in her field and has won many awards, she is a very humble person. I highly recommend the book.

  12. 4 out of 5

    Suanne

    The author of The Smallest Lights in the Universe: A Memoir, Sara Seager, is a pioneering astrophysicist and a professor at MIT. She also led NASA’s Probe Study team for the Starshade project and earned a MacArthur grant. Since childhood she’s loved astronomy and the possibilities that lie beyond our own planet. She’s always been a socially awkward loner. She is on the autism spectrum but isn’t diagnosed until adulthood. As a child, her life balanced between two extremes. Through the week she liv The author of The Smallest Lights in the Universe: A Memoir, Sara Seager, is a pioneering astrophysicist and a professor at MIT. She also led NASA’s Probe Study team for the Starshade project and earned a MacArthur grant. Since childhood she’s loved astronomy and the possibilities that lie beyond our own planet. She’s always been a socially awkward loner. She is on the autism spectrum but isn’t diagnosed until adulthood. As a child, her life balanced between two extremes. Through the week she lived in a dysfunctional family that included a stepfather she called “the monster”—whose vicious mood swings kept her on tenterhooks—and an enabling mother. Sara spent weekends with her father, a physician who understood and cared for her. As Sara moves through college, she meets her first husband—another loner—named Mike. They blend because they feel comfortable being alone together. They share the same love of sports and Canada’s wide-open spaces. They marry and have two sons. Mike assumes the stay-at-home parent role, working as an editor, to allow Sara time to search for the stars. Suddenly, he is diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, and they are forced to deal with his impending death, chemotherapy, and preparing their sons for a life without their dad. Sara finds herself a widow and single mom at age forty and must pick up the pieces of their shattered life and learn to deal with home repairs, car repairs, and the other flotsam and jetsam Mike dealt with. This memoir is a luminous look at how this successful professional reinvents herself after this loss. She moves from being a loner to “collecting” people who provide support for herself and her family as they adjust to live without Mike. Among these are a group of women, the Widows of Concord, who take Sara in and offer emotional support and advice on the above mentioned home repairs, dating, letting go of the lost loved one, and preparing to let a new love into her life. Along the way, Sara—like all working mothers—must learn to balance work and home life. A lovely, deeply emotional memoir—I sniffled through parts of it—by an astrophysicist who love for the stars provides a glue that holds her life together. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.

  13. 4 out of 5

    Julia Alberino

    Sara Seager has had an extraordinary life so far. In this book, part memoir, part technical explanations of what astrophysicists actually do (the casual reader may want to skim these parts, though those of us who are fascinated by outer space will love them) she tells her inspiring story. A must-read for parents of daughters; the daughters themselves if they are teen-aged or older; and anyone who has ever felt "different" from peers. I had a hard time putting it down. Sara Seager has had an extraordinary life so far. In this book, part memoir, part technical explanations of what astrophysicists actually do (the casual reader may want to skim these parts, though those of us who are fascinated by outer space will love them) she tells her inspiring story. A must-read for parents of daughters; the daughters themselves if they are teen-aged or older; and anyone who has ever felt "different" from peers. I had a hard time putting it down.

  14. 5 out of 5

    Peacejanz

    This memoir by a widow who is a noted astrophysicist is good and bad. She is a star in her field, winning awards, thinking the ways others do not and she marries a gentle man who just likes to be with her in the outdoors. When they have children, he stays home and takes care of them while she continues to star. She is socially inept and often very selfish. For example, once when she was offered a position at a different university, she accepted before she even talked to her husband about it. Her This memoir by a widow who is a noted astrophysicist is good and bad. She is a star in her field, winning awards, thinking the ways others do not and she marries a gentle man who just likes to be with her in the outdoors. When they have children, he stays home and takes care of them while she continues to star. She is socially inept and often very selfish. For example, once when she was offered a position at a different university, she accepted before she even talked to her husband about it. Her father was her lifeline and when he died, she leaned on her husband more and kept winning awards and being a star in this field of stars. But her husband became ill and she was so inept she could not research his symptoms, could not fix anything around the house, could not cook. Finally, at the suggestion of her supervisor, she hired people to help her with the two boys, her husband, and around the house. After her husband died, she fell apart. She could do nothing around the house, dwelt in sorrow, and was mean to everyone who came near her. So here is the important part of this review. The middle part of the book, where she continues to sink in sorrow and helplessness and is really not a nice person, is really awful. I almost quit but kept going; fixated on her sorrow and depression, I guess. I just could not understand how a woman with such a brilliant mind could be so helpless and not care for her sons. I wish I could say a miracle happened. It did not. But she struggled on, completed a few things, got more help from others, and slowly but surely became a useful citizen again. Some good things happen in the end - she gets a diagnosis that is helpful and she grows more mature in her 40s. The book is worth reading but this is not a quick read. You will learn more about space and all the instruments that measure things in space than you want to but if you hang on, you can rejoice with her at the end.

  15. 5 out of 5

    Laura

    The metaphors practically write themselves: the search for light that has been Sara Seager's life's work as a rising star astrophysicist contrasts against the stark darkness of her husband's death of cancer. She lays out the black and white of her story right from the beginning then goes back to fill in the shades of color that tell a fuller story. It's really an absorbing story of immense grief and even larger hope, and the struggle to figure out all the mundane details in between. I appreciate The metaphors practically write themselves: the search for light that has been Sara Seager's life's work as a rising star astrophysicist contrasts against the stark darkness of her husband's death of cancer. She lays out the black and white of her story right from the beginning then goes back to fill in the shades of color that tell a fuller story. It's really an absorbing story of immense grief and even larger hope, and the struggle to figure out all the mundane details in between. I appreciated her honesty about the struggle of parenting while keeping up with an ambitious career, loved the way she formed friendships out of necessity that became true bonds of friendship, and the story of all she's accomplished in her work. It's really a captivating memoir!

  16. 5 out of 5

    Jane Cairns

    I enjoyed being invited into Sara Seager’s life. I especially enjoyed learning about Sara’s work on exoplanets and the Starshade project. Having helped someone close through the grief process of losing a spouse, I am glad that Sara found support in The Widows of Concord. I would have liked to learn a little more about Jessica, Diane and Christine as Sara mentions that she became close friends with them, even having Jessica live with her and her sons. I also wonder if Sara ever sought professiona I enjoyed being invited into Sara Seager’s life. I especially enjoyed learning about Sara’s work on exoplanets and the Starshade project. Having helped someone close through the grief process of losing a spouse, I am glad that Sara found support in The Widows of Concord. I would have liked to learn a little more about Jessica, Diane and Christine as Sara mentions that she became close friends with them, even having Jessica live with her and her sons. I also wonder if Sara ever sought professional help about where she fits on the autism spectrum. Overall, a nicely paced read about a slice in the life of a most interesting person.

  17. 4 out of 5

    Tammy

    This is a memoir of Sara Seager's life, to date. She describes her life as a child, adult, dating, children, and the journey that life carries her on. Throughout all of this she maintains her love of the stars. Without giving a spoiler ~ she has to navigate some very difficult life situations, all while managing a very demanding career as a well respected astrophysicist. Although I enjoyed reading about her life, I found it challenging to fully engage in the explanations on the science of planet This is a memoir of Sara Seager's life, to date. She describes her life as a child, adult, dating, children, and the journey that life carries her on. Throughout all of this she maintains her love of the stars. Without giving a spoiler ~ she has to navigate some very difficult life situations, all while managing a very demanding career as a well respected astrophysicist. Although I enjoyed reading about her life, I found it challenging to fully engage in the explanations on the science of planets. I believe more readers would be engaged if the language was simplified. Then again, if you are a science oriented person, this may be the perfect book for you.

  18. 4 out of 5

    Janet

    Dr. Sara Seager is a groundbreaking astronomer and planetary scientist. She's a professor at MIT, and has won numerous prizes in her field including the MacArthur Genius Prize in 2013. Her life hasn't been easy, having been widowed at 40 with two young sons. She has always been able to focus and do what she can for her family. It's extraordinary that only in her 40s, after it had been pointed out to her, she learned and confirmed that she is on the autism spectrum. What an amazing person. Dr. Sara Seager is a groundbreaking astronomer and planetary scientist. She's a professor at MIT, and has won numerous prizes in her field including the MacArthur Genius Prize in 2013. Her life hasn't been easy, having been widowed at 40 with two young sons. She has always been able to focus and do what she can for her family. It's extraordinary that only in her 40s, after it had been pointed out to her, she learned and confirmed that she is on the autism spectrum. What an amazing person.

  19. 4 out of 5

    Matilda Oppenheimer

    Excellent book than merely a memoir! Somehow Sara Seager manages to integrate both her life story and some basic astronomy into a highly engaging and very readable book. As good a book as it is, I will suggest two additions: (1) More pictures! There is one photo of the author on the book jacket. That's it. I wanted to see photos of the author's family/friends/pets. Also, it would have been helpful to see some photos of some of the scientific devices that she referenced. Photos or drawings Excellent book than merely a memoir! Somehow Sara Seager manages to integrate both her life story and some basic astronomy into a highly engaging and very readable book. As good a book as it is, I will suggest two additions: (1) More pictures! There is one photo of the author on the book jacket. That's it. I wanted to see photos of the author's family/friends/pets. Also, it would have been helpful to see some photos of some of the scientific devices that she referenced. Photos or drawings of a couple of the exoplanets and other space phenomena would also have enriched the book. (2) I wish a glossary or index had been included so that I could refresh my memory on some of the scientific nomenclature. I should have taken notes!

  20. 5 out of 5

    Ann

    What a wonderful weave of science and personal memoir. Tragedy and triumph, told without flinching.

  21. 4 out of 5

    Natalie Grange

    I found this memoir beautiful, raw, and honest. We don’t talk about grief and loss in our society. We don’t leave enough room for people to experience these emotions, have life altering experiences, and still feel like functioning humans. I cried a lot. I also laughed and saw myself in many of the emotions and situations Sara shared. I too have cried in grocery stores, and at the hardware store, parking garages and bathrooms. I still do. It is comforting to see women rally around each other in s I found this memoir beautiful, raw, and honest. We don’t talk about grief and loss in our society. We don’t leave enough room for people to experience these emotions, have life altering experiences, and still feel like functioning humans. I cried a lot. I also laughed and saw myself in many of the emotions and situations Sara shared. I too have cried in grocery stores, and at the hardware store, parking garages and bathrooms. I still do. It is comforting to see women rally around each other in support and love. This is a beautiful compilation of life’s joy and sadness. The combination of which make us imperfect, yet whole.

  22. 5 out of 5

    Karen Ng

    It wasn't until I was about 1/3 into Dr. Seager's memoir that I realized how much I've missed good writing the last two years. Life is definitely unfair, when someone so achieved in her field of astrophysics is also an amazing storyteller. If you enjoy a good memoir by someone who's gifted with words, along with fun tidbits about the planets and stars that built seamlessly into the memoir part of the book, this is the book for you. However, savour it slowly with a cup of tea. The sentences and p It wasn't until I was about 1/3 into Dr. Seager's memoir that I realized how much I've missed good writing the last two years. Life is definitely unfair, when someone so achieved in her field of astrophysics is also an amazing storyteller. If you enjoy a good memoir by someone who's gifted with words, along with fun tidbits about the planets and stars that built seamlessly into the memoir part of the book, this is the book for you. However, savour it slowly with a cup of tea. The sentences and paragraphs are a rare literary feast.

  23. 5 out of 5

    Erica

    It's not easy for a book to make me cry, but this one did It's not easy for a book to make me cry, but this one did

  24. 4 out of 5

    Virginia

    I still marvel at what we know. First, the universe underwent an extremely rapid growth rate in a tiny fraction of the first trillionth of a second of its existence. That's why someone like me talks about the Big Bang rather than the Big Bang Theory. Second, the unverse is about 13.75 billion years old and still growing. We were born in a flame that has never gone out. I'm amazed at how much I, a science-failer from day 1, learned about space and space exploration from this memoir. The author d I still marvel at what we know. First, the universe underwent an extremely rapid growth rate in a tiny fraction of the first trillionth of a second of its existence. That's why someone like me talks about the Big Bang rather than the Big Bang Theory. Second, the unverse is about 13.75 billion years old and still growing. We were born in a flame that has never gone out. I'm amazed at how much I, a science-failer from day 1, learned about space and space exploration from this memoir. The author didn't seem to be dumbing anything down for lay readers like me, but every passage and explanation was completely understandable. I did have to read some passages twice but it all made sense and I was surprised at how interested I became in the whole thing. Sara Seager must be a wonderful lecturer and I'll keep an eye out for any workshop she does in the future. She has refined what she has learned in every area of her life into a very readable and relatable memoir. Her observations about grief are succinct and powerful, and hit me very hard. ...when you lose someone, you don't lose them all at once, and their dying doesn't stop with their death. You lose them a thousand times in a thousand ways. You say a thousand goodbyes. You hold a thousand funerals. When someone you love dies, you don't leave them, they leave you. Your love gets stuck, lost in translation between this world and the next: You're constantly giving your heart to someone who isn't there to receive it, and at the expense of someone who is.She also describes the difficulty of being a motivated woman in a male-dominated field. We had decided that seventeen billion Earth-size planets orbited their own suns in the Milky Way alone. Think about that. Seventeen billion. But most of them had been found by men. Why was only half our species doing nearly all of the job? Exploring space is a titanic quest. If we ever want to achieve what we believe we can, we will need every possible set of eyes. Highly recommended. ***The description of the exoplanet travel posters intrigued me so much I looked them up. My favourite: https://i.etsystatic.com/12207792/r/i...

  25. 4 out of 5

    Brittany

    I’m torn about this one. I really loved listening to Sara’s story in regards to her personal life. Her insights on grief and loss were so heartfelt and I loved the Widows Club. These parts alone could have been a nineties hit movie staring Meg Ryan. I got lost and let my mind wander a lot when she detailed her career. Not that it isn’t important and inspiring work, but my non-scientist brain just peaced out. I also couldn’t shake the fact that despite struggling immensely as a widowed mother of I’m torn about this one. I really loved listening to Sara’s story in regards to her personal life. Her insights on grief and loss were so heartfelt and I loved the Widows Club. These parts alone could have been a nineties hit movie staring Meg Ryan. I got lost and let my mind wander a lot when she detailed her career. Not that it isn’t important and inspiring work, but my non-scientist brain just peaced out. I also couldn’t shake the fact that despite struggling immensely as a widowed mother of two young children, she was still extremely privileged. She could afford help. When she needed more help, she named her price and was given a raise. She won grants for her work that totaled in the hundreds of thousands. She could travel with her kids and afford a three week long vacation in Europe. She was absolutely deserving of all this, while at the same time this very likely isn’t the experience of most widows. Still, Sara is very likable and the narrator was wonderful, so recommended for fans of memoirs.

  26. 5 out of 5

    Elizabeth (Literary Hoarders)

    This was an interesting memoir. Sara Seager is a brilliant astrophysicist, and I enjoyed the portions of the book where she shared her professional work - be they frustrations or successes. Until now, I didn’t know what a rogue planet was, nor an exoplanet. I certainly do now. What surprised me most, however, was how much of this book was devoted to her grief after the loss of her first husband. I appreciated her candor, but actually wanted more science. I’ve seen other reviews that said that sh This was an interesting memoir. Sara Seager is a brilliant astrophysicist, and I enjoyed the portions of the book where she shared her professional work - be they frustrations or successes. Until now, I didn’t know what a rogue planet was, nor an exoplanet. I certainly do now. What surprised me most, however, was how much of this book was devoted to her grief after the loss of her first husband. I appreciated her candor, but actually wanted more science. I’ve seen other reviews that said that she comes across as too frank, and even arrogant. I understood these complaints, but attributed them to a diagnosis that is finally revealed in a quick snippet at the end. (Something that seems pretty obvious as the book unfolds.) She’s very matter-of-fact, and definitely keeps readers at arm’s length. Would I recommend this memoir? Not necessarily. It’s interesting, but was not something that I was clambering to pick up.

  27. 4 out of 5

    Margaret

    A good perspective on losing a spouse. She offered some good insight into grief and how she was able to move on. The telling at times was bittersweet and insightful but I often felt loss with her details about the universe. I am interested in the subject but she wrote it in a way that perhaps only fellow scientists would appreciate. All in all, a worthwhile read.

  28. 4 out of 5

    Barbara

    Sara Seager has a brilliant mind in her field of astrophysics, and she has a gift for writing her memoir of marriage. Life has dealt her a rude awakening after the death of her husband Mike. There are also details about her work, her children, her father and her co-workers. She slowly learns to adjust to her unexpected life through advice from others, including young widows that meet to discuss their lives.

  29. 5 out of 5

    Lisal Kayati Roberts

    So interesting on every level! A very human story with a lot of fascinating information about the search for life in the universe. Sara is brilliant and engaging. I loved it!

  30. 5 out of 5

    Riley T

    This was gorgeous. I was as entranced by the nuances of astrophysics as by the personal narrative - and it made me emotional a couple times.

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