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Each year more than five-million couples separate in the United States and almost 1.2 million more couples divorce. While there are numerous books designed for the spouse who wants to separate or divorce, there are few resources for those who want to reconcile the relationship. This book is written specifically for the man whose wife has walked out on him and wants to win Each year more than five-million couples separate in the United States and almost 1.2 million more couples divorce. While there are numerous books designed for the spouse who wants to separate or divorce, there are few resources for those who want to reconcile the relationship. This book is written specifically for the man whose wife has walked out on him and wants to win her back. It includes step-by-step, easy-to-understand instructions and advice. Real-life examples offer insight into how other men won their wives back and a workbook section helps men develop a personalized game plan for their individual situations. Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late offers simple steps that God can use to restore hope and make a positive difference in a marriage relationship.


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Each year more than five-million couples separate in the United States and almost 1.2 million more couples divorce. While there are numerous books designed for the spouse who wants to separate or divorce, there are few resources for those who want to reconcile the relationship. This book is written specifically for the man whose wife has walked out on him and wants to win Each year more than five-million couples separate in the United States and almost 1.2 million more couples divorce. While there are numerous books designed for the spouse who wants to separate or divorce, there are few resources for those who want to reconcile the relationship. This book is written specifically for the man whose wife has walked out on him and wants to win her back. It includes step-by-step, easy-to-understand instructions and advice. Real-life examples offer insight into how other men won their wives back and a workbook section helps men develop a personalized game plan for their individual situations. Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late offers simple steps that God can use to restore hope and make a positive difference in a marriage relationship.

30 review for Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late

  1. 4 out of 5

    Claude Ayitey

    Great book, but too much American Football There are too many references to American football. Sometimes, I had to skip some sections because I couldn't understand the terms, hence couldn't catch the point. Aside that, the book offers practical steps for every marriage, even newlyweds. Great book, but too much American Football There are too many references to American football. Sometimes, I had to skip some sections because I couldn't understand the terms, hence couldn't catch the point. Aside that, the book offers practical steps for every marriage, even newlyweds.

  2. 4 out of 5

    Dave Jones

    I bought the dead-tree version of this book for a desperate buddy of mine whose wife had isolated herself from him in their marriage. Amazon subsequently offered the Kindle version at a deep discount. The rationale behind my purchase was two-fold: 1) I wanted to read what I recommended to see if I made a good choice. (I had based my purchase decision on reviews.) 2) I wanted to glean some tips and warning signs so that the quality of my own marriage doesn’t degrade to the point where I need this I bought the dead-tree version of this book for a desperate buddy of mine whose wife had isolated herself from him in their marriage. Amazon subsequently offered the Kindle version at a deep discount. The rationale behind my purchase was two-fold: 1) I wanted to read what I recommended to see if I made a good choice. (I had based my purchase decision on reviews.) 2) I wanted to glean some tips and warning signs so that the quality of my own marriage doesn’t degrade to the point where I need this book. I thought it might provide “guardrails” that would protect our marriage from getting to this stage. Smalley uses a football analogy to describe and put into context this advice. Often such analogies trivialize the process but he makes it work. For one thing many men can relate to football and this paradigm can help them relate. Even if they are not football-minded, the examples are easy to digest. He describes certain counterproductive behaviors as penalty flags (e.g. Blaming = grounding). He describes productive actions as yardage gains. The yardage gains/losses are an effective way to assess progress. Obviously while winning your wife back is the goal (pun sort of intended), the focus is also in becoming a better man. This is not a playbook of tricks designed to con or placate your wife into returning to you. Rather it focuses on personal transformation to become a better man after the “game” is over (reconciliation or divorce). Often the husband is not always entirely at fault. Smalley examines some of the dynamics (e.g. when the wife was previously the victim of abuse) at play that must be recognized and appropriately responded to in the course of this process. There is good material in this book. I can’t help but think that it would be a good pre-marital counseling resource. It is worthy reading even if your wife has not distanced herself from you. The behaviors can enrich any marriage.

  3. 4 out of 5

    Mark Manderson

    Good advice using football analogies Good material and appreciate how it's biblically based. My top takeaways were: * Story of the painter painting the vase instead of the wall. * LESSON: If it's not working, try something different. * Ask your wife to list the ways you hurt her and disappointed her, how you may have neglected or abused her, and how she felt unappreciated and unloved. This is a valuable exercise will provide you with a checklist from which to work and score points. * A good rule of Good advice using football analogies Good material and appreciate how it's biblically based. My top takeaways were: * Story of the painter painting the vase instead of the wall. * LESSON: If it's not working, try something different. * Ask your wife to list the ways you hurt her and disappointed her, how you may have neglected or abused her, and how she felt unappreciated and unloved. This is a valuable exercise will provide you with a checklist from which to work and score points. * A good rule of thumb is to listen to what is said; do not react to the words used. * Make your desire to hear your wife be greater than trying to be heard. Listen to understand rather than to respond. Listen to her with your heart—hear her pain and feel her needs. * Ask Christ to reveal what your wife needs, where she is hurting, and how she is hurting. Seek His help to identify with her pain and understand your wife better. Ask Him to help you become the man He longs for you to be. 1. Be tender, kind, and gentle with your wife. 2. Listen to your wife—don’t cut her off. 3. Have open communication, and share your feelings with her. 4. Spend time with your family, value each one, and make them a priority. WOMEN NEED: 1. UNCONDITIONAL SECURITY. * A plant must have sunlight if it’s to be healthy and flourishing. In marriage, providing a deep sense of security for your wife is like bathing her in warm sunlight. * Valuing her thoughts and feelings. * Showing patterns of truthfulness. 2. The average woman states that she needs at least one hour a day in intimate conversation to keep her marriage alive, thirst-free, and growing. 10 minutes here, 15 minutes there, 20 minutes there.

  4. 4 out of 5

    Tim Chaney

    This book turns a marriage failure into a football game. It attempts to appeal to men to recapture their marriages by using football analogies throughout. It is moderately helpful but not for everyone. I found the football stories too long and the marriage applications too short. There is good content to be found but there are other books available that are more helpful.

  5. 4 out of 5

    rudis aragon

    This book spoke to me especially since I love football I was able to comprehend everything perfectly and how he related it to football. Perfect for the alpha males who dont show emotion but love their wife and dont know how to communicate your love to them. I HIGHLY recommend reading it

  6. 5 out of 5

    Brianna Rhodes

    Awesome read I used this book to get co?are to my wife. We have never separated but the information in this book still strengthened our relationship.

  7. 5 out of 5

    Andrew

    great lessons and tips

  8. 5 out of 5

    Keith

    This puts it in football terms that guys can understand. I have recommended this book to several friends. They take a christian approach to relationships. There are many ways to mess up, ways to lose the trust and confidence of your wife, ways to hinder your efforts to regain her trust. This book teaches by analogy to a football game; terms that most all men can understand and relate to. It has very specific advice for those who have already separated and what they need to do to mend the relation This puts it in football terms that guys can understand. I have recommended this book to several friends. They take a christian approach to relationships. There are many ways to mess up, ways to lose the trust and confidence of your wife, ways to hinder your efforts to regain her trust. This book teaches by analogy to a football game; terms that most all men can understand and relate to. It has very specific advice for those who have already separated and what they need to do to mend the relationship. I found it rather disheartening to read about how bad it can be, and so was only able to read about a chapter a night. "The foundation of all relationships is honor. Fulfilling marriages must be built upon that foundation." p xi (introduction) "Step one. ... identify specific behaviors that are guaranteed to lose ground. ... In the game of love you can score points in two ways. You can score by doing positive things ... Or you can sustain a drive toward reconciliation by avoiding penalty flags." p13 "Step two. ... identify and understand specific patterns of behavior that can put you across the goal line consistently with your wife. Step two will help you understand why your wife may not respond to your reconciliation attempts. When you offend your wife you usually close her spirit. Therefore, to help you gain positive yardage, we will present the secret to opening a closed spirit." p13 "Step three. ... honoring your wife and children." p13 "Step four. Related to honor is the concept of sacrificial love. In this step you will learn how important it is to prefer your wife above all other earthly things." p13 "Step five. ... initiate change in yourself." p14 "Step six. Understand why some women are not in a position to reconcile is the next step. Your wife may have emotional baggage she is hauling around from a past relationship, and virtually nothing you do will make a significant difference..." p14 "Step seven. ... understand your ultimate goal after your mate leaves. As you realize that drawing closer to the Lord is the greatest thing you can do, the joy you'll experience can make the pain worthwhile and the future look brighter." p14 "Step eight. ... persistence." p14 "Step nine. ... identify a place where you can receive continuous support and accountability. Through this method, you can gain increased life span, and higher motivation and the perspective of others." p14 "Step ten. ... We identify several key factors ... that will help you to keep your winning streak going long after the reconciliation drive ends." p14-15 Write Your Own Reconciliation Game Plan Postgame Interviews

  9. 5 out of 5

    Daniel Aguilar

    The only positive outcome I got from this book is the reminder of taking care, cultivating, nurturing a relationship. The constant biblical references and football analogies made me sick. Couldn't finish it, dropped it at 60%. The only positive outcome I got from this book is the reminder of taking care, cultivating, nurturing a relationship. The constant biblical references and football analogies made me sick. Couldn't finish it, dropped it at 60%.

  10. 5 out of 5

    Charles Thornton

    This is a practical guide to steps to take for men who are separated from their wives. The author uses sports stories and analogies to make the points easy to grasp.

  11. 4 out of 5

    Jacob Dalley

  12. 5 out of 5

    Otis

  13. 4 out of 5

    Scott Gagnon

  14. 4 out of 5

    bryan

  15. 5 out of 5

    Wim Kerkhoff

  16. 5 out of 5

    Hady Emam

  17. 5 out of 5

    Donavon Richardson

  18. 5 out of 5

    Bradley J Lauterwasser

  19. 4 out of 5

    Michael

  20. 4 out of 5

    Jordan Alturas

  21. 4 out of 5

    Eric Upton

  22. 5 out of 5

    Jason Holland

    Good counseling book, but also a great read in understanding challenging relationships.

  23. 4 out of 5

    John Hartman

  24. 5 out of 5

    Tom

  25. 5 out of 5

    Lana McHolland

  26. 5 out of 5

    Brandon Jeffries

  27. 4 out of 5

    Ed

  28. 5 out of 5

    Chad Roller

  29. 5 out of 5

    Austin J. Williams

  30. 4 out of 5

    Hayden Quigg

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